
As a parent, I spend a lot of time thinking about how to raise my sons. I want them to grow up curious, capable, and grounded. I want them to enjoy the same things I do: saving and investing, learning new languages, mountain biking, fishing, hiking, braaing, exploring, and chasing dogs around the garden.
But beyond the mud-streaked adventures and piggy-bank savings, there's a bigger mission here - making sure they understand the investing lifestyle. Not just the numbers and the charts, but the mindset: delayed gratification, compounding, staying the course. And equally important, understanding what to do and who to speak to when I'm not around anymore.
Many clients ask me: "When should I start teaching my kids about money?" The answer is always: "Now." You don't need to start with ETFs or estate plans - start with why you save. Let them hear you talk about your investments. Show them how your portfolio is connected to your values, to time, freedom, and family.
If your kids grow up knowing who your advisor is, what your long-term goals are, and how to think about risk and reward, they won't be lost in the fog if something ever happens to you. You don't need to "train your replacement," you need to raise someone who understands your financial philosophy.
It's not just about money, it's about continuity, legacy, and confidence. And it starts around the braai fire, on the trails, and in the simple conversations you have today.